This content material initially appeared on Beyond Type 1. Republished with permission.
By Ginger Vieira
“My first bleed was almost 12 years ago — the day my first baby was born,” explains Bethany, who’s lived with sort 1 diabetes for almost 40 years, since she was 3 years outdated.
Despite receiving preventative laser remedies to the regarding blood vessels on this space of her eye previous to and all through her being pregnant, the stress of being pregnant and pre-eclampsia (hypertension throughout being pregnant) had been sufficient to trigger them to bleed.
“There was a bunch of trauma around that, because the bleed was the catalyst for me to have an emergency c-section. That was the biggest bleed I’ve had and it took a long time to clear up.”
Since then, Bethany has skilled minor bleeds on and off, however has additionally gone lengthy stretches of time with none new bleeds.
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“Last October I had another bad one,” says Bethany. “It was so discouraging, because I haven’t had any new abnormal vessel growth, I’m not pregnant, I don’t have blood pressure issues, and my A1C is stellar. It just happened.”
“It’s cleared up since then without traditional treatments like a vitrectomy or steroid shots, but it took quite a while because it leaked more blood and fluid for a few weeks after the initial burst,” she provides. “At this point, I’d say I’m back to where I was pre-October in terms of vision, but maybe it’s a bit messier.”
My Experience With Laser Treatments for Retinopathy
“I’ve only had laser treatments,” says Bethany, who’s been in a position to handle her retinopathy with out extra invasive remedies.
“I’m not sure the experience qualifies as ‘pain’ so much as ‘misery’. It’s horribly uncomfortable, and it does begin to be painful as the treatment goes on, but it’s not what I’d describe as particularly painful.”
Eventually, Bethany says she used a low dose of a gentle sedative to assist take the nervousness out of receiving laser remedies. While it may possibly’t change the way it feels bodily, it may possibly assist make the general expertise a bit much less demanding.
“It’s hard to catch your breath, and it feels like being tortured, and my eyes pour with tears, but it’s all more of a dull feeling other than a bit of a sensation that a rubber band is being snapped behind your eye.”
Parenting a Newborn With Low Vision
“Nursing a baby and not being able to see her face clearly when she’s on your left side was heartbreaking,” remembers Bethany.
“Struggling to read a book to a child, wondering if you’ll have another bad bleed when you’re at the store with your child, not being able to lift an older child because it might exacerbate the bleed—it all sucked.”
Fortunately, by the time her second being pregnant started, Bethany’s eyes had been prepared.
“It was so much easier,” she says. “No pre-eclampsia, no eye issues. It was such a relief after being so terrified to try it all a second time.”
Today, she says she’s cautious how a lot to share along with her youngsters about her eye problems.
“After my recent bad bleed, it was my oldest daughter (the one who was born the day of my first bleed) who held me while I sobbed, because she was ready to support me,” remembers Bethany. “That was so bittersweet and beyond meaningful.”
What My Vision Is Like Today
“I wouldn’t say I live with ‘low vision’ today but there is a blobby mess in one eye,” explains Bethany. “My brain has learned to adapt, and I can see around it. I don’t read super fine print very well, but I’m not sure I would even without retinopathy since I’m getting old!”
However, Bethany would say she did have low imaginative and prescient for a time frame — and it wasn’t simple.
“After those two bad bleeds, I did have trouble with the vision in one eye for a while, until the blood cleared. That was hard, but I’m grateful it wasn’t long-term.”
However she says that it’s additionally affected her life in different methods when there are bleeds.
“My eyes feel strained, I have headaches, and I definitely don’t feel comfortable driving until the bleeding has cleared up.”
The fear and anticipation of a possible new bleed appears like a ticking time bomb.
“I try not to think about what my vision could be like later in life, but I do wonder if I’ll be able to see my grandkids clearly, and if I should retire early so I can make the most of my later years while I still have vision. In day-to-day life it’s pretty minimal, but in terms of mental/emotional load it’s huge and it’s always there.”
How My Diabetes Management Has Changed
“I smartened up with my diabetes management big time since the first time the doc saw something in my eye,” explains Bethany. “Since that day I’ve been highly motivated to do this well.”
Having lived with sort 1 diabetes since age 3 in the Nineteen Eighties with early glucose meter expertise and insulin choices had been severely restricted, Bethany feels fairly certain the first 25 years of her life with diabetes led to the problems in her eyes.
“My A1c was usually in the low double digits when I was a child, because avoiding low blood sugars was considered the safest way to manage diabetes in a young child back then,” says Bethany.
By the time she was in her 20s, expertise and developments in insulin helped her handle an A1c in the 7s and 8s. Once she began utilizing an insulin pump, she was in a position to preserve an A1c under 7.0 throughout each pregnancies.
“I’ve always, always, tried really hard with my diabetes,” provides Bethany, “but it was like I spent 25 years trying to solve a puzzle that finally started to come together in the last 15 with a pump, a continuous glucose monitor (CGM), and eating low-carb.”
While Bethany used an insulin pump for five years, she’s managed her diabetes with MDI (a number of every day injections) for the final 8 years, and maintained an A1c under 7 %, and round 5.8 % for the final yr.
“Using a pump, two pregnancies, and eating mostly low-carb definitely taught me so much more than I knew before I used an insulin pump,” explains Bethany. “But I was having a lot of issues with scar tissue which made infusion sites for pumping complicated. And I hated being tethered to my pump.”
The psychological recreation of diabetes, she provides, is a big a part of it.
“There’s always a fear lurking that it could happen again at any time. More so since this last one,” says Bethany. “You never really escape it because you never know that you’re safe. You can do everything right from a certain point on, but the damage is already done.”